Long, happy and harmonious relationships… are they possible? What do I need to do? Whether you have been living together for many years or just standing on the threshold of life together, such a question will surely arise before you. Maybe try to turn to the experience of happy couples? After all, they have their own secrets.
Respect
Treat each other with respect. You may have nothing in common: different interests and life principles, religion, level of education and income. Learn from your soul mate, discover something new for yourself, reveal something new for your partner. Respect is the basis of friendship, and without it, a long and lasting relationship is impossible.
Trust
Trust your partner. You should not turn into Sherlock Holmes and vigilantly conduct round-the-clock surveillance, turning out your partner’s pockets and checking their phone. Both of you will get bored with this very quickly. Everything may happen, and cheating too. And if it happens that the fact of infidelity is proven, think about whether you can forgive your partner without poisoning your life with constant suspicions. Decided to stay together — trust them.
Expression of Feelings
Give tenderness and affection to your soul mate. Smile at each other. A constantly unhappy expression will scare anyone away. If you love your partner — show it. An adult needs tender words and touches no less than a child. And if you are going to live together happily ever after, do not forget about it.
Sex
Don’t be a prude. Between loving people, there should be no barriers and restrictions in the sexual sphere. Do not hide your desires, implement the desires of your partner, give each other pleasure. Sex is an integral part of a harmonious relationship. Reveal yourself, discover new things in a partner, reach new heights together.
Care
Any person, even the strongest and most successful, needs care:
- cup of coffee brought to the computer;
- dinner prepared with love;
- cleanliness and comfort in the house;
- tea with raspberries during a cold.
Such simple displays of love and tenderness are a sign of a happy couple.
Self-sufficiency
You should not dissolve in your partner and become their shadow. Engage in self-development, hone your talents, so you will maintain a constant interest in yourself, in your personality.
Love
Love is the most important component of harmonious relationships. Quarrels and disagreements, irritability and the fading of passion — everything can be overcome if there is love between people. Love each other, live happily ever after!